Monday, March 17, 2014
Parshat Shemini
22 Adar 2 5774 / March 21 – 22, 2014
Vayikra 9:1 – 11:40
The Shadow of Spiritual Practice
This is the portion of 8. In Jewish mysticism 8 is the number that represents the realm beyond the natural order. 7 days in the weeks, culminating in Shabbat, and then 8 – there is always more than meets the eye.
This portion has a disturbing tale. The sons of Aaron are newly consecrated Priests. They make an offering to God and are killed for it. The basic understanding of this is that they worshipped in their way, not in the way God wanted from the nation. That is a big no-no.
This reminds me of an article I read a year or two ago about a couple that took a multi-year vow of silence within a spiritual community. For certain reasons, they were ousted from the community. They were in the middle of the desert, with no resources. Instead of breaking their vow of silence and heading back to civilization, they remained in the desert until, eventually, one of them died.
Spiritual practice has a shadow side. It can be dangerous. If you ever took a Yoga class, you might remember a time you pushed past your limit to injury. Or on a larger scale, take note how conflicts and wars result from religious idealism. In spite of these dangers, I appreciate two Jewish values that seem to protect us from harm:
1. Above all things – do not put your life in danger.
2. Stay connected to community.
With Pesach liberation only 4 weeks away, we can weigh these two values seriously as our first steps to building a safe and supportive environment for all.
Monday, March 10, 2014
Parshat
Tzav (Zachor)
Vayikra
6:1 – 8:36
15 Adar 2 5774 / March 14-15, 2014
15 Adar 2 5774 / March 14-15, 2014
Hi
MH’ers!
Hope
you are ready for a blast-off week. In this week’s parsha we continue to learn
about the sacrificial offerings and we hear the tale of the 7 day ritual which
establishes Aaron and his sons as the Priests of the community. In traditional
synagogues a special portion will also be read, Parshat Zachor – the Portion of
Rememberance, which relates the commandment to blot out the memory of Amalek.
Funny isn’t it, to be commanded to remember to forget something!
Parshat Zachor fits
neatly into the theme of Purim, as Haman is metaphorically associated with
Amalek. Reminder, the Fast of Esther is this Thursday and Purim is this Sat.
night and Sunday. Read on for some thoughts about Purim.
Many
blessings!
Zvi
May the Real
Purim Please Stand Up!
by Zvi Bellin, MHHQ
by Zvi Bellin, MHHQ
Here is comes
again! Purim. The holiday that celebrates Esther and Mordechai’s brave acts
that seemed to turn fate on its head so that the Jewish people were saved and
the evil people (Haman and his family) were hanged. Of course, as a side note, a
simple reading of the Scroll of Esther also shares that many other people died
as a result, soldiers who were just following orders. (Note to self: Do not do
things that are just following orders.)
How do we celebrate
this holiday? We give money to the poor and food to our friends. We dress up in
costumes. And oh yes, we get drunk, so drunk that we cannot tell the difference
between Haman and Mordechai, between evil and good.
At a certain
point in time, this seemed really cool to me. A holiday where we celebrate by
getting sloshed! Can there be anything better? When I consider some of the
deeper messages of this holiday, I actually do think so. I am not sure that the
way that I learned to drink is really getting at what the Rabbis wanted when
they decreed, “Ad d’lo Yada,” Drink until you do not know the difference
between good and evil.
Here are some
underlying themes of the Purim story that can easily get lost when I am on the
special sauce –
1.
God is not mentioned in the story of Esther at all! The
world where the story takes place is the closest to our experience of the world
today, more than any other holiday narrative. Life seems to happen at random
and it can be quite a scary reality to live in.
2.
It is really difficult to stick your neck out for a
greater good. The enticement of personal safety is so strong, though it must be
risked, especially when your family (or any minority group) is being
threatened.
3.
There is nothing in this world that is purely good or
purely bad. In fact, these terms might be completely arbitrary in this world.
When we look back at life’s events, we see horrendous tragedies feed into
amazing advancements and joyous celebrations. We only know joy, because we know
sorrow.
Purim is not
just a simple story that calls for an over-the-top celebration of Jewish
survival. It is an acknowledgment, and perhaps an uncomfortable one, that the
world we live in makes no sense. Living a just life comes through immense sacrifice.
Whether you believe in God or not, there is no guidebook for a happy peaceful
existence, and maybe the point of existence is not even peace and happiness. These
are scary facts to face, and often lead people toward abusing alcohol, since it
is much easier to be drunk than to face these scary facts.
When the Rabbis
were inviting us to get drunk, their intention was to engage us in a transcendent
encounter with these facts. Similar to a dream state, where it is easier to
process our difficult emotions, when we are drunk it is easier to deal with the
harsh truths of this world in order to integrate them into how we approach living
day-to-day. But it depends on how your drink. I learned to drink to forget and
purge, not to encounter and accept. I experienced this kind of drinking before,
when I was living in a Yeshivah in Brooklyn. Everyone was drinking around a
table and singing songs with full passion. Dancing ensued, faster and faster
and more ecstatic. Suddenly, a Rabbi pulled me over for an intimate
conversation and gave me a blessing that I was on the right spiritual path. He
spoke of the courage he saw in me and empowered me to continue to live my
Jewish life authentically.
So I think
Purim is a time when we embrace the doubt that we see in the world, in our
communities, and in ourselves. We dress up and get playful because nothing is
as it seems, and this is what we got, so let’s celebrate it. We drink, just
enough, so we can more easily feel connected to each other, so we can throw our
arms around each other and share blessings of beauty, strength, and comfort. If
you can do this without drinking and with more presence, amazing! And then we
do the real mitzvoth of Purim, Sending Food and Gifts to the Poor - we share
what we have so that everyone will have food to eat, shelter to live under,
clothing to dress in, and love and care to be nurtured.
Have a Truly
Happy Purim!
Monday, March 3, 2014
Parshat Vayikra
Vayikra 1:1 – 5:26
6 Adar 2 5774 / March 7 – 8, 2014
Please Pass the Salt
by Zvi Bellin, MHHQ
ב:יג וְכָל-קָרְבַּן מִנְחָתְךָ, בַּמֶּלַח תִּמְלָח, וְלֹא תַשְׁבִּית מֶלַח בְּרִית אֱלֹהֶיךָ, מֵעַל מִנְחָתֶךָ; עַל כָּל-קָרְבָּנְךָ, תַּקְרִיב מֶלַח.
2:13 And every meal-offering you shall season with salt; neither should you remove the salt of the covenant of your God from your meal-offering; with all thy offerings you shall offer salt.
Do you know the story about the sad ocean waters who complained that they were too far away from God? The Midrash (stories about the Torah) teaches that when the upper waters were separated from the lower waters on the second day of creation, the lower waters threw a bit of a hissy fit.
“Why should the upper waters have all the fun, hanging with God in heaven? What about us?”
God, being a good listener and problem solver, answered, “Hey beautiful lower waters, don’t fret. In the future there will be a group of people called Israelites, and they will be commanded to worship me through sacrifices. In order to cheer you up, I am going to add on a rule to their sacrifices that the salt that comes from you will be sprinkled on each sacrifice that they put on my alter. So through your salt you will make it up here bit by bit.”
This appeased the waters and all was good and happy.
Rabbi Yaacov Kaminentsky points out that when salt water is boiled, it is the water that rises and the salt that stays behind. It is as if we are commanded to put the “rejected” part of the water on the alter. And this is basically what Rabbi Kaminentsky concludes. The salt not only involves the element of water in the sacrificial process, but it also reminds us that every part of this physical world can serve as a prayer to the Divine.
When we remember that the Hebrew word for sacrifice (korban) also means to come close, a beautiful teaching emerges. The one thing that was constant in all the sacrifices was the salt. No matter what the reason for the sacrifice, for peace or guilt, sin or celebration, through the salt the Israelites added a piece of themselves that they felt was unworthy to bring close to the Divine.
This is a transformational process. What I might want to reject about myself is ultimately accepted by God. In our modern times, we still perform sacrifices, though not by slaughtering animals. Rather, we draw close using out words during moments prayer, both formal and informal.
I am pretty sure that heaven is not actually above us in outer space somewhere, and I doubt that the message of the salt story is that we are closer to God when we are higher up in the sky. I think the message is that we get closer to the Divine when we allow more of ourselves to come close. This point of awareness should be weaved into our lives in all of our prayers.
Monday, February 24, 2014
Parshat Pekudei
Shmot 38:21 – 40:38
29 Adar 1 5774 / Feb. 28 - March 1, 2014
A Blessing from Moshe to Moishe House
by Zvi Bellin, Moishe House Headquarters
וַיַּרְא מֹשֶׁה אֶת-כָּל-הַמְּלָאכָה, וְהִנֵּה עָשׂוּ אֹתָהּ--כַּאֲשֶׁר צִוָּה יְהוָה, כֵּן עָשׂוּ; וַיְבָרֶךְ אֹתָם, מֹשֶׁה.
And Moses saw all the work, and, behold, they had done it; as the LORD had commanded, even so had they done it. And Moses blessed them.
The tabernacle and all of its parts are constructed, yet not united. The clothing of the Priests are stitched in fine detail. The Children of Israel bring all the products of their handiwork before Moshe for approval. He inspects the holy tools carefully; he measures each post and eyes the thread pattern of each cloak and garment. Moshe sees that everything was indeed made in accordance with what God commanded. The people prove their personal connection to know what God wants from them. According to Rashi, Moshe blesses the entire congregation with these words.
“May it be willed that the Shechina [divine presence] will rest on the doing of your hands, and may the favor of the Lord our God rest on us. Establish the work of our hands for us— yes, establish the work of our hands.”
This blessing offers an important reminder for our work through Moishe House. Like the Children of Israel (and as Children of Israel) we set the stage for some major Jewish experiences for our peers. We take care in preparing the food, and keeping the house ready for events. We are mindful about our relationships with our housemates who are in part co-workers and part friends. We do a lot to create the space and get all the details ready.
After that, we have to let go. Will people show up? Will new people come? Will our peers appreciate the scene we have created? Will our programs necessarily translate into a richer Jewish life for all involved? We don’t know, and neither did Moshe when the Israelites brought him all the ritual items. Will these physical items actually draw God closer to us?
Moshe’s blessing fills the gap between planning with our best effort and the actual outcome of our work. We can choose to be overcome by worry about an event, or we can bring an intention and hope that things will work out as needed. So I want to bless all of us:
May it be willed that the Divine Presence will rest on the doing of our hands, and may Divine favor rest upon us. Establish the work of our hands for us— yes, establish the work of our hands!
Many blessings!
Zvi
Monday, February 17, 2014
Parshat Vayakhel
Shmot 35:1 - 38:20
22 Adar 1 5774 / February 21 - 22, 2014
The Small Task at Hand
by Zvi Bellin, MHHQ
by Zvi Bellin, MHHQ
In this week’s Torah portion Moshe gathers the people and asks them to provide free-will offerings of precious materials in order for the artisans and craftsmen to build the sanctuary in the desert. All the people of Israel responded with overwhelming generosity. Our parsha states in Chapter 36:
“But when these continued to bring freewill offerings morning after morning, 4 all the artisans who were engaged in the tasks of the sanctuary came, each from the task upon which he was engaged, 5 and said to Moshe, ‘The people are bringing more than is needed for the tasks entailed in the work that the Lord has commanded to be done.’6 Moshe thereupon had this proclamation made throughout the camp: ‘Let no man or woman make further effort toward gifts for the sanctuary!’ So the people stopped bringing: 7 their efforts had been more than enough for all the tasks to be done.”
I love hearing about a project that actually gets done. So often, I find myself working on projects that seem to have no end, for example, engaging Young Jews to explore their religious, spiritual, and cultural heritage. I can get into the mindset, that there really is no end to such a task, and it is easy to get lost in the progress that can be difficult to perceive. I think social justice causes have a similar resonance; will we ever really reach a just society? Will all people on earth (or in this country or city) be safe from bodily harm, starvation, or degradation? Possibly not anytime soon. And so at times when feeling the hints of despair it is important to remember the Jewish adage, “It is not upon us to finish the work, but neither can we desist from working towards the goal.”
Our Torah portion offers another useful strategy than just plowing through feelings of despair – notice the projects that do have an end. All huge goals can be broken up into smaller parts, and those goals into smaller parts…and in the end there is but one task, “give a free will offering” to the moment. That is really all we can do. Snap out of our locked in ways of being and give ourselves freely for one moment to acting in a way that brings us towards our goal. This is true for repairing a car or ridding the world of micro-aggressions. Make this small moment a free will offering towards your goals.
When we focus on the small moments of change, and then pick our heads up to see where we have come (Shabbat, for example is a great day to stop and see how far you have come), there might be a sense of, “Hey! The car is fixed!” or, “Hey, I really have stopped unconsciously talking down to people that are different from me!” We can celebrate the end of a task and feel a sense of progress towards a larger goal.
Monday, February 10, 2014
Parshat Ki Tisa
Shmot 30:11 – 34:35
15 Adar 1 5774 / Feb. 14 –15, 2014
Angry Moshe Blows His Top
by Zvi Bellin, MHHQ
If there is a portion of the Torah where Moshe seems to be out of his mind, this is it! Moshe is on the mountain and everything is going fine. He is learning Torah with God and crafting a timeless text together. When they are done, God tells Moshe that the people have gone bananas. They are worshiping a false god and God will kill the whole nation and start fresh with Moshe’s kin. Moshe “leaps” into action and begs for the people’s forgiveness. He convinces God that it would be very un-God like for the people to be destroyed now. After all, they've come so far. And would we really want a rumor spreading around the world that the Almighty God freed the Jews only to kill them in the desert. No one wants that! God sees the reason in Moshe’s words and relents. The Jewish people will be spared.
This all seems great. Gold star for Moshe.
Now Moshe goes down the mountain hefting the first set of stone tablets. And he hears … debauchery! A raucous celebration that can only mean one thing – God was not kidding and the poop has really hit the fan! He approaches the camp and sees the Israelites dancing around this golden statue of a calf. They are singing around it and pointing to it proclaiming, “This is our new god!”
Moshe has already saved the people from destruction. He could have returned to the community, smashed the baby cow and set the people straight with a strong reprimand. Instead he seems to go ballistic. He breaks the tablets and grinds the calf to dust making it into an atonement cocktail for the people to drink. Then he rallies the people who are still “with God” and orders these zealots to slay their brothers who refused to come with Moshe. They killed about 3,000 people! In the text, he gave this order in the name of God, though it is not evident from the text that God actually told the people to kill their own flesh and blood.
While Moshe learned to sway God towards forgiveness, he did not seem to model God’s ability to forgive.
Monday, February 3, 2014
Parshat Tetzaveh
Shmot 27:20 - 30:10
8 Adar 1 5774 / Feb. 7-8, 2014
Praying For The Whole
by Zvi Bellin, MHHQ
In this week’s Torah portion Moshe and the Israelites are commanded regarding the clothing of the High Priest (Aaron), and his sons. In the caste system of this newly-liberated people there was one family (Aaron’s) from within the Levite family that would bear the burden and receive the honor of serving in God’s tabernacle. The Priests performed the holiday rituals and the daily sacrifices. They made sure to keep the lamp burning day and night, and were the only ones allowed to enter into the inner chambers of the temple. Reflecting on this, I think about a monogamous relationship where the most intimate revelations about two people are shared between the couple only.
As we know very well, Judaism does not say that the Priestly connection was the only connection between humans and God. We believe that each person can reach out to God and also find forgiveness through God. If you think about it, atonement and reconciliation is a major function of clergy in many faiths. Similar to last week’s question, why have this central role if we are all privy to the power of Divine communication? And what of today, where a strong Jewish central figure seems to be missing?
When speaking of an individual’s relationship with God, I believe the priests’ role was less crucial. You did something wrong, and you brought an offering to the temple for atonement. The priests’ function was to help you with the roasting and blood spilling, and keeping order, very much like the clerks at a Department of Motor Vehicles. Essential for order, but not adding much more.
Now when we talk about communal processes, then the kohanim serve a much more important function. They act as the representative for the entire nation, with all of our intricate connections and bonds. This is very beautiful and wise. Having a central person atoning for the collective, shows that we understand that no one person is solely responsible for his or her actions. A murder acts within a social context and framework. A thief does not grow up with this propensity in a total vacuum. Just as we affect each other to express our positive identity, we also play a role in each other’s failings. Having the priest as a central figure is a cosmic play of the, “many combined into the One.”
Now how about today? We do not have the same system of centralized sacrificial atonement. We pray with words, words, and more words. Each person is individually responsible for the words of his or her lips and the meditations of his or her own heart. I believe, that the unification of prayer can be found in the repetition of the silent prayer by the Shaliach Tzibur (literally, The One Sent by the Collective), Service Leader. Also, we have a need for 10 people in order to say specific prayers – an enhancement of the individual prayer by the formation of a quorum.
In my own practice, over the past few months, I have been finding myself less drawn to going to synagogue for prayer, but also in more of a need for an uplifting community experience during Shabbat. I think synagogue can provide that if I have the patience to show up and be open to the process that unfolds as we go through ancient rites of prayer. I will continue to explore this avenue. I also know that in my personal meditation practice, I sometimes feel bored, or I just do not want to sit and do my practice. What motivates me is to remember that world wide, people of all different faiths are engaged in communal practice right now, and that this is not something that I am doing all by myself. I feel myself plugging into a vast network of people trying to hone their compassion and higher-self qualities. It makes coming to the cushion (or prayerbook) a lot easier.
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